Sherri
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I'M BACKHi Guys
Got another computer I felt lost without you Phil kept me up to date pretty much.
You missed Phil's funny comments Jill...for less than 24 hrs? Well I talked him back to coming back....so we're all happy Woo Hoo.
Glad to hear Em is hanging on. My ex husbands baby boy died. This is the fourth miscarriage his girlfriend had. Makes us mums grateful.
Im very happy to be able to be in communication with all of you. I really missed you...hey Jill FINALLY saw a picture of you! Even if only a profile...exactly how I expected you to look Put it up on our family album!!!!!
Be Well Everyone. Love You. Em almost Friday crossing everything!
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Ike
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Im really sorry to hear that, was she far gone? I understand that pain having lost 6 all quite early thank god, One was less than an hour after the scan ! so seeing it all fine on screen to then loose it was a killer..
Please send her my best.
Bloody good to see you back Sher
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Sherri
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It was pretty bad...they're both devestated, as if I have to even say that. I told him I was very sorry. He wants to talk to me about it, so when he feels he wants to he will. He said it was the worst thing he's ever been through in his life. They had a funeral, etc. She was about 6mos. along. She seems to have trouble carrying. I believe this is about her 4th or 5th miscarriage.
I don't understand why they're not seeking a specialist though. After she conceives, she probably needs her cervix stitched. This is the furthest she made it. Usually she makes it 4-5wks.
I don't have to tell you the emotional toll it takes too. They keep getting pregnant deliberately (?) My God, that has to be so painful. I know others of us have and are experienciencing some difficulties, I was/am devestated just going through it with you. My heart is always with you. Say some prayers for strength for them. Thanks everyone.
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Ike
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You got it... They truly have all the possitive thoughts and prayers i can muster :smt022
This stuff kills me, nobody should feel how they are feeling right now
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Tami
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Havin miscarrages is 1 of the worst things out there,The torment you go though everytime u see that positive test and then losing it,It becomes second nature to be happy then to have it taken away all over again.
I think the worst time for me was when we had a scan was all really excited and get home and start bleeding i ended up in hospital after that 1 as i bled so much i thought i was diein.
And then what your body goes though is just terrable it cant work its self out.So i totally understand what they are going though we give up in the end because i couldnt go though it anymore then we where pregnant with Riley r prince not saying the whole time i was worried it would all end,
Im sure Sherri if they just give up it might happen sometime and be fine,Im sorry they are going though this and ill send them all my love and hugs xx
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Sherri
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Aaw Tam...just reading what you went through makes me cry :smt022 You had to be beside yourself.
As a mom, even thinking about it tears me apart. I love you Tam, you did good. You too Ike, you went through it with Tam...it's just that Im sure Tam felt it was her fault  IT WAS NOT. All the guilt, regret...on top of how badly her body felt Thanks for sending them positive vibes....they really need it.
He was my husband at one time, and gave me my most precious treasure...my baby girl. I feel very badly for him. I hope they seek a specialist, and get pregnant soon.
Your're right Tam...when they least expect it...it has to be taking so much out of them. She gets pregnant easily, but can't carry. Thanks again, I knew, if anyone, you two would understand. Love You
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phil h
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You know they are in my prayers , even though I'm probably going to hell ! I pray for them at thier time of loss and into the grief process .
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Sherri
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Im not real fond of her because she's nasty to my baby...but never would I wish that for anyone.
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